For me, this is it huge NTB, reasonable boundaries are very much underrated.Growing up, My siblings and I were very particular about person space. My bedroom was my fortress of solitude, Chinchilla Xmas Lighting Reindeer Hat T-Shirt the one place I could escape to and no one would bother me. I was very lucky even if I was fighting with my siblings or parents we always respected the bedroom rule. If the door was closed then knock and do not enter without an ok. do you usually dismiss her out of habit?
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The way you describe her “rambling about work nonsense” makes it sound like you don’t pay attention to her/take her seriously. no, not usually. I’ll listen to her whenever she wants to talk, her work stuff is usually just weird customers or complaining about her cut shifts. Chinchilla Xmas Lighting Reindeer Hat T-Shirt She can easily talk about either subject for 40+ minutes and I was in a rush the other day (which i very rarely am) I don’t want to give judgment because I feel like I really needed to be there to see everyone’s tone and attitude but I think it was a little fucked up of you to tell her to go like it’s not like what you said to him was a secret. Even if she was being rude, she’s not doing anything by just standing there.
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Everyone knows a person to whom “Man, work sucked today.” is you talking too much about yourself, and everyone knows that one guy that can turn a story about a ten minute interaction into a four hour monologue. There’s no real way to tell who in this story could be what. she was making me uncomfortable, like I was inconveniencing her. Chinchilla Xmas Lighting Reindeer Hat T-Shirt Didnt want to feel like that in my own bedroom so that’s why I asked her to leave. Didnt use a rude/snooty tone, kept it neutral/fairly quiet.